
Several years ago as I began to think about turning 70, something about it sounded familiar and comforting. I grew up in the 70s and loved that crazy turbulent decade. In my heart, wouldn’t I always be a 70s girl?
I could go back and revisit that time with the sound of Marshall Tucker, Heard it in a Love Song. I was running up the front steps with my girlfriends to the Fred Tap, a bar in my hometown. There was a band that night, the place was packed and the old wood floor was rocking. I loved that song. The flute at the beginning, then “If I ever settle down, you’d be my kind.” The songwriter was a male, but that lyric was the soundtrack to my own dating life. Because the 70s invited women to reject settling down and that song celebrated being free.
During college, music defined our happiest times. A group of my St. Olaf friends drove to see Elton at the St. Paul Civic Center on Halloween night in 1974. Someone knew the way. It was the era of his big glasses and jumping up on the piano. Kiki Dee played with him. The concert began with a fog-filled stage and Funeral for a Friend, but Crocodile Rock was my favorite.
A friend gave me Springsteen’s Born to Run album for my birthday and I can still remember taking the cellophane off and playing it.
There are literally hundreds of tunes that take me back. Maybe we all had tender goodbyes to the sound of Todd Rundgren’s Hello It’s Me. Fleetwood Mac and Van Morrison songs are within me forever.
As decades have passed and I realize how precious those times were, I decided to ask my good friends about their song memories. This collection is a place we can all return to as time goes by and we just feel like going back.
In the middle of the project my aunt Susan Rewoldt introduced me to research that underscores the importance of music as the decades go by.
If age dims our senses, these songs may be the very last of what we remember.
This project is a birthday gift to myself, and in a way, some insurance that I will stay a 70s girl.
I have loved every conversation with these good friends and thank them for sharing their songs.
MJ Smith
Turning 70 Nov. 29, 2025











